Tuesday, January 22, 2008

** Worth Sharing **

Thank you Aunt G...
HANDBAGS... Have you ever noticed gals who sit their handbags on public toilet floors, then go directly to their dining tables and set it on the table? Happens a lot! It's not always the 'restaurant food' that causes stomach distress. Sometimes "what you don't know will hurt you"! Read on... Mom got so upset when guests came in the door and plopped their handbags down on the counter where she was cooking or setting up food. She always said that handbags are really dirty, because of where they have been. It's something just about every woman carries with them. While we may know what's inside our handbags, do you have any idea what's on the outside? Women carry handbags everywhere; from the office to public toilets to the floor of the car. Most women won't be caught without their handbags, but did you ever stop to think about where your handbag goes during the day. "I drive a school bus, so my handbag has been on the floor of the bus a lot," says one woman. "On the floor of my car, and in toilets." "I put my handbag in grocery shopping carts and on the floor of the toilet," says another woman "and of course in my home which should be clean." We decided to find out if handbags harbor a lot of bacteria. We learned how to test them at Nelson Laboratories in Salt Lake, and then we set out to test the average woman's handbag. Most women told us they didn't stop to think about what was on the bottom of their handbag. Most said at home they usually set their handbags on top of kitchen tables and counters where food is prepared. Most of the ladies we talked to told us they wouldn't be surprised if their handbags were at least a little bit dirty. It turns out handbags are so surprisingly dirty, even the microbiologist who tested them was shocked. Microbiologist Amy Karen of Nelson Labs says nearly all of the handbags tested were not only high in bacteria, but high in harmful kinds of bacteria. Pseudomonas can cause eye infections, staphylococcus aurous can cause serious skin infections, and salmonella and e-coli found on the handbags could make people very sick. In one sampling, four of five handbags tested positive for salmonella, and that's not the worst of it. "There is fecal contamination on the handbags" says Amy. Leather or vinyl handbags tended to be cleaner than cloth handbags, and lifestyle seemed to play a role. People with kids tended to have dirtier handbags than those without, with one exception. The handbag of one single woman who frequented nightclubs had one of the worst contaminations of all. "Some type of feces, or possibly vomit" says Amy. So the moral of this story is that your handbag won't kill you, but it does have the potential to make you very sick if you keep it on places where you eat. Please use hooks to hang your handbag at home and in toilets, and don't put it on your desk, a restaurant table, or on your kitchen counter top. Experts say you should think of your handbag the same way you would a pair of shoes. "If you think about putting a pair of shoes onto your counter tops, that's the same thing you're doing when you put your handbag on the counter tops" - Your handbag has gone where individuals before you have sneezed, coughed, spat, urinated, emptied bowels, etc! Do you really want to bring that home with you? The microbiologists at Nelson also said cleaning a handbag will help. Wash cloth handbags and use leather cleaner to clean the bottom of leather handbags. THIS IS WORTH SHARING!!!
~ FYI ... Ladies, they now have handbag hooks. You can use them to hang your handbag off of a table when you're at a restaurant instead of putting it on the floor. Lady Chanel would roll over in her grave if she knew you were treating her handbag like a common handbag !

Sunday, January 20, 2008

A Swift Kick In The Cant's

OK friends, it's Sunday 1/20/08 and I am wrapping up a marathon weekend of learning ALL that I can about Blogging. I got a 'Kick in the Cants' from a dear friend of mine Lena Nozizwe -- check her out at http://www.nozizwe.com. I love her book ! When you order them from her site she personally autographs them ... no ink stamping there ! She gave me an "ORDER" to get my act in 6th gear and to keep it moving. I was lamenting to her about the roadblocks that I had stumbled upon and was trying to get a personal pity party going (which Lena wasn't having any of ~ thank you Girl !). This past Thursday evening I told her about the 3 major issues that I was having ... we talked ... she gave me my marching orders and told me to go to it. Well, I prayed about it , laid them before the LORD, went to sleep and woke up inspired ! I put it out there what I wanted and needed and started to work toward it's manifestation. Oh nooo my little love muffin, you cannot just sit back and wait. You must work towards the manifestation of your dreams. And manifest they do ! The answers started "appearing" after I began to search for them. I began searching the web and some of my old books and journals and PRESTO MANIFESTO ! The answers I needed began showing up. I just needed a good 'Kick in the Cant's' My Acronym for Can't is : Craziness Appearing Natural and True. Sometimes even us as Coaches & Consultants need a 'Kick in the Cants'. At times we can get wrapped up in the busyness of the business and forget to leave a door open for GOD to do HIS thing. This is just another gentle reminder to "Let Go and Let GOD". This is a very selfish post. I usually post about things that I need and I think you as my audience would like to hear, this post was totally for me. But, I think you will forgive me. There is so much out there to learn and to grasp on to ... sometimes you need gentle reminders and sometimes you need 'A Swift Kick in the Cants'. Blessings

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Rock the Boat

I am sitting here watching my favorite show "The Big Idea" on CNBC. I was listening to Don King (Boxing Promoter ~ the hair remember ?!) and Cason Kressley(Queer Eye For the Straight Guy) and found out that they have alot in common. Now what does a gay, conservatively raised, white guy and a black kid from the ghetto ~ projects actually, have in common you may ask. Well, the answer is they both know how to rock the boat. They are both very flamboyant and they both took their opportunities to shine and stand to out from the crowd and they have not let it go ! They rock the boat !!! Find your passion in life and go for it ! Don't worry that someone else is doing what you do ... they cannot do it the way that you can do it. They don't have your style, flair or Savoir Faire(Spell check someone) !!! Have you checked out the Parfum counters lately ? They are loaded with all sorts of goodies (yes. parfumes are my fetish ! Can you say toilet water ?) Anyway, there is always room on my dresser for one more. Take a moment and look in your closet ... go ahead, I'll wait ... how many different pair of jeans did you find or how many pairs of black shoes did you stumble over? See what I mean ? Now here's the secret ... you must work ! Success come before work only in the dictionary or in the case of Brittany Spears ~ ouchy, sorry I couldn't resist. Work smart not hard. Find what you love to do ~ your passion and learn EVERYTHING that there is to learn about your area of interest. Read books, trade magazines, etc. Visit your local library. Go to Amazon.com .Talk to those in your field of interest. Hire a Life Coach (Some one called for me ?) Join a Mastermind Group( Hello again !) Just stay connected and learn all that you can and add your signature to it. Own it ! Lastly, stay away from those negative people, you know who they are. You hear them complaining long before you see them. Avoid them like the plague. They are a plague. Their negatives stick to you if you stay around them long enough and then you begin to think then sound like them ... RUN FOR YOU LIFE ! Because your life and happiness really is at stake ! It's your boat so ROCK IT BABY ! Send me your witticisms and comments. Let me know what you want to hear.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

When Your Dreams Follow You

Hello Again, This is a brief summary of Lesson 2 in my Focus Factor Coaching entitled ~
"Drilling Down your Dreams"
OK, in my last entry I recommended that you Solopreneurs
(Solo proprietor of you own business)
begin to keep an Idea Journal to keep track of all of your ideas.
I keep a small one in my pocketbook and then transfer whatever ideas
I get to my larger Idea Journal.
Now go over your list and see which dreams keep following you,
which dreams keep 'haunting' you. What dream/idea keeps showing up
consistently. You hear someone say it on the radio ... you hear it from the
pulpit. You see it on TV, your friends talk about it. I mean this dream/idea won't leave you alone !!! Your mother is even talking about it. Or she has talked about it. What do you do ???
Follow it and make it happen !
Allow me to give you an example...
My mother tells stories of how I was always fair and very objective when
I was a little girl. A very cute little girl, mind you ...
and how I could part the waters during any argument and try
to get the participants to see the other persons point of view.
Now my daughter has this uncanny gift. Cuteness included !
Well, anyway I went on to become a Consultant and a Life Coach. OK...
and I am also a Serial Entrepreneur. I just can't help it ... I truly love
the energy I get from brainstorming to creating marketing plans.
So keep writing down those dreams that come to you
and see where they lead.
Allow me to help you "Drill Down and Focus on your Dreams"
to make them happen.
I am a Certified Life Coach with a focus for Christian Women
looking to start their own businesses, build their dynasties, write
the book of their dreams or who just want to live their life to the
fullest.
Let's work together to make this happen. Two heads work better
and faster than one. Success guaranteed !!
610.482.4398
Coach Bliss
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Wednesday, January 9, 2008

First Things First

Hello all, I am going to make this post brief. I chaperoned my daughters class as they went to the PA Farm Show in Harrisburg, PA today and boy I am beat !!! Give yourself an “empty” gift to start-off the New Year. It starts off “empty” at the beginning of the year, and then it gets filled once you’ve decided to record your new ideas and observations during the year. It’s the single most valuable gift you can give yourself this Holiday Season. I call this gift my “Idea Journal.” It’s a “perfect bound” empty notebook that’s just waiting to get filled with your random thoughts and anecdotes on a weekly or even daily basis. Keep this up and by the end of the year, you will have a mother load of ideas to pick & choose from. I have two of these "Idea Notebooks". I completed my first one June 2007 and I am already halfway thru the second one. They have given me alot of content for my blog and for my up and coming website and books ~ ebooks !!! I also review some ideas that I jotted down either on a whim or at 2:30 am on one of my insomnia all-nighters. All I can say is ' WOW, I am good' ! Try it and let me know what you think. Coach Bliss

Sunday, January 6, 2008

Dying to ...

Story goes that there was a handsome little boy who was dying to turn 10 so he could be as tall as his older brother. At 10 he was dying to become 16 so he could get a driver's license . Next it was 18 so he could graduate and go off to college ( Yeah, the independence !). The once handsome little boy now a very good looking man couldn't wait to graduate from college because he was dying to start his life in the career of his dreams. Career set, he was now dying to get married to his true love and start the 2.5 family just like his parents did. He along with the Mrs. was dying to start a family. He couldn't wait for the toddlers to grow up so he could play catch with junior, he was dying to raise the next Joe Montana or Tom Brady. The years go by and the once proud papa is dying for the kids to grow up and get out of the house. Time goes by and our man is dying to retire so he can start the good life. A few years into retirement and the once handsome man is sitting on his boat that he had been dying to get, looks at his wife whom a long time ago he was dying to marry. she's on her cell phone talking to the kids that he was dying to have and he suddenly realizes ... that he is just dying ... Did he ever live ? Too many times we get caught up in the pace of life and forget about the pleasures of life. What do you dream of doing, creating, achieving ? Besides the excuses what is really stopping you ... can you say nada ... nothing ? You have to be bold, passionate and a little bit crazy to do something different in this world. Only you can write that book inside you or start that business that you secretly daydream about. I know your secret because I use to be you . if I can wake up and LIVE ! Then my dear so can you . You can make a difference in your life, it just takes
  • PASSION
  • PURPOSE
  • FOCUS
  • COMMITMENT

&

5 LAWS FOR TRUE SUCCESS and I will share some of these with you starting Wed. 1/9/08. The rest you will have to contact me for. What are you waiting for ? Aren't you dying to LIVE !!

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Try Simpleology ... I Have & I Like IT !

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I'm Baaack !!

Hi all, I would like to send out seasons blessings to everyone. I really needed some time off to refocus and get back on track. 2007 was a rough year for us as a family, I would like to thank you all for your prayers and support. I am expecting 2008 to be GREAT !!! Whatever GOD allows to come on my Path HE will give me the strength to overcome it ! I am studying the word "wait" and it's various forms in the Bible. It started off as just something to do but now ... WOW ! Sometimes we wait or are told to wait so that GOD can clear the road to our success. HE may be preparing to line up the people we will need to contact and connect with for our progress and success, or HE may have to "Hold it together, while we get it together". Whatever the situation ... just know that GOD, ABBA has your back. HE is the best business partner you could have, so move forward with your visions, goals and ideas. Well, while I've been "waiting" GOD has been doing some amazing things on my behalf. HE has been giving me ... rather bombarding me with ideas, I am telling you I can't write fast enough !!! I have been meeting some amazing people and getting a clearer vision for my business for 2008 ! I have learned that no idea is a dumb idea, write them down and save them for the right time. What are your ideas ? Don't ever dismiss your ideas as foolish ... look at the Chia Pet ~ that was someones foolish idea . Sometimes you just need that outside person to take a look inside and help you E X P A N D . I would like to become that person for you. Let's work together to get your ideas from your head to a "HIT". Let's get clear about what you want to do and let's get started right now ! Christian entreprenuerial minded women who are ready to E X P A N D are my ideal clients. Success is guaranteed ! Give me a call @ 610~482~4398 Email me @ bthomascoaching.com I would love to add your success story to my book. Blessings, Coach Bliss